As DPasz It Gets

Dean recounts his evening with a blown tire on the way to get some Christmas errands done prior to leaving town and uses the moment to explore the "depth" in his life — from public persona, loyalty, sensitivity, and the work of rebuilding himself through faith and discipline.
He shares a "Hits Deep" segment on cultural curiosities and conspiracies, reflects on Christ’s meaning at Christmas, and gives a quick life update with upcoming guests, a Florida trip, and creative projects.

In this episode of As DPasz It Gets, Dean sits down with singer-songwriter Taylor Jo Porter to explore her journey from church choir and small-town roots and struggles to releasing her very own album. They discuss grief, addiction, DUIs, mental health, autism/adhd, and the hustle that goes into promoting one's self.
This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt wired differently but absolutely knows they’re meant for more — honest, raw, and hopeful conversation about turning adversity into art. I hope you all enjoy💜Connect with Taylor Jo Porter:• Instagram: @taylalalasings• TikTok: @taylalalasings• All socials: @taylalalasings• Stream 4394JO on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/album/4394jo/1811165684• Stream 4394JO on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/74lEVsKvJcroylfZTCF6ys?si=vQNtapasQ322q0ABCDDmig

Dean candidly shares feeling mentally and physically worn while recognizing the privilege of pursuing a creative dream. Exploring the tension between struggle and gratitude, shifting dynamics with longtime friends as lives diverge, and the choice to carry on even when it means walking parts of the path alone.
He reflects on the trap of always chasing "better," offers a podcast recommendation (Chris Williamson's 'Modern Wisdom' w/ guest Alex Hormozi), recalls meaningful holiday moments with family and friends!
We also touch on the old @DPASZ COD channel – countless late-night Warzone and Resurgence memories with Patrick, Dylan, and the boys. Simpler times, rough comms, a lot of laughs.
If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you used to be and who you’re trying to become, this one’s for you.
Thanks for listening.
We’ll see you Wednesdee.

In this episode Dean reflects on the slowing of the season and the seasonal blues that come with it. He highlights the importance of family, giving, and showing up for others during the holidays. He shares personal updates about his 75 Hard attempt, recovery from injury, and plans for community spaces like live streams and bonus content.
The episode revisits a vivid Shadyside weight room memory from the "Top 100 Memories" list.
He wraps with word of the day—"Light"—and features two short videos about sobriety and personal growth, encouraging listeners to be present and supportive of one another throughout the wintertime.

You may want to watch this one instead of listen, there's some cool visuals! This episode starts with a quick Shadyside shout-out to everyone who stepped up to run for local office (proud of our little town), then a deep dive into the archive with a some apple notes from June 2016—proof this dream has been years in the making.
Real life keeps on real-lifing: a couple interviews fell through, Mom & Gram came up (Gram’s massive Patrick Mahomes crush lives on), and I found some perspective I needed. In a rebuild mode of sorts: hoops, bike rides, and a simple bullet-journal system—every square is data.
We get honest about “the commentary section” of my life—turning criticism into conversation and inviting it on-mic and on-pod.
Also, the debut of HITS DEEP:• Recovery song: “Turk Street” by Benjamin Lerner• A meaning-of-life clip that stunned me• A Kobe/Tim Duncan clip (you know I love Kobe)
Shout out to the ones who show up and encourage me!
Teasers: my new project, Top 100 Memories from High School—tonight’s preview, “The Fred Kerns Incident” (names changed for privacy).Word of the Day: Perseverance — James 1:12, Romans 5:3–4, Galatians 6:9.
If this pod has ever hit you in the heart, here’s your chance to help fuel it. I’m launching a small support club and community space to keep help keep the pods rolling and give back.
Support & Community
Patreon (tiers $1 / $3 / $5): → [https://www.patreon.com/c/AsDPaszItGets]Skool: “As Deep As It Gets Community”  → [https://www.skool.com/as-dpasz-it-gets-5592]
Tell me: Do you have some Shadyside memories you think should make the Top 100 next? (Names will be changed.)
Go deep… 

Shadyside can’t pick a Halloween date (😂), and that reminds me: you can’t please everyone. In this solo I get real about a weekend slip, the emotional hangover that followed, and why I’m restarting 75 Hard to realign with the man I love being. We talk cognitive dissonance, micro-momentum, and GRACE —  and a community challenge to keep me accountable.
Local love: Vote Meintel for mayor, Parr & Haswell for council, and write in Bob Dorris. No paid ads here — just respect.
75 Hard Basics: clean meals • 2 workouts (1 outside) • 1 gallon water • 10 pages • daily selfie • no alcohol.Grab the on-screen checklist graphic and run it with me.
If this helped, share it with someone sitting in that same emotional fog.
Chapters below + resources.
Resources / Verses (Word of the Day: GRACE):
Ephesians 2:8–9 • Romans 6:14 • Hebrews 4:16If alcohol is hurting your life, consider talking to someone you trust or a local support group.
00:00 Cold open: hey, I’m Dean00:25 Shadyside Halloween bit (you can’t please everyone)02:05 Say your truth anyway03:00 Local ode: Meintel (mayor); Parr, Haswell & write-in Bob Dorris (council)03:40 Why the ep is 2 days late04:20 Weekend slip & emotional hangover06:30 Cognitive dissonance explained08:15 Chemistry vs. character (what alcohol does)09:55 Micro-momentum: water, walk, journal, reconnect11:20 What the drink was really chasing (relief/connection/escape)13:00 Zooming out: you tripped on a rock, not lost the mountain14:20 Solution: Restarting 75 Hard16:30 On-screen checklist: how to follow along17:40 Best start dates (why March 1st is elite)19:10 Word of the Day: GRACE (+ verses)21:30 Accountability invite & outro
 

Dean sits down with Chris Murphy (“Limpie TV”) to talk streaming vs. YouTube, GTA 6 hype, VR/Sandbox, and how sobriety reshaped Chris’s life (and Dean’s, via 75 Hard). They honor Patrick’s impact on the show, dive into conspiracies (flat earth, the “Age of Disclosure,” the "Book of Enoch"), and play a card game that sparks real talk on discipline, failure, childhood nostalgia, parenting in a tech world, and small moments that can teach big lessons.

Dean recounts this past weekend where a $1.75 seven-leg parlay hit, an early cash out, and his lifelong friends showing him grace—"keep the money, fix the the car" reminding him of faith, gratitude and what friendship really means.
He reflects on scripture, celebrating small-town brotherhood, intentional friendship, and how community can be the real miracle when life gets hard.

Dean Pasztor keeps it raw in this episode: a Kobe-inspired pep talk, reflections on fear and forgiveness, and the discipline of showing up through life’s struggles.
He touches on ADHD, car and financial hassles, selling a Sleep Number bed, community involvement in Shadyside, and his creative work on music and the podcast — all while urging listeners to take small reps and offer forgiveness.

Dean recounts a wild, heartfelt weekend — sneaking Patrick's ashes onto the PNC Park infield. Recounts his time with longtime friends and family, and coping with a suddenly quiet home. He introduces a new podcast segment “Word of the Week” and explains his modified 75-hard challenge “Brotherhood 75,” then goes on to answer listener questions about happiness and change, sharing plans for future episodes and growth. Submit your questions to be featured on future episodes!! - adpaszig@gmail.com